With this decision, one also needs to look at the very important need of making sure that when you get married, that this loving commitment does not become a mill stone around your necks; all because you did not do your homework. In modern South Africa getting married, should in my opinion always be preceded by executing a antenuptial contract, also known as a marriage contract or in the US as a "prenup".
Contrary to many peoples' perceptions having a antenuptial contract is not anticipating divorce. Let me just look at this objection for a moment. An antenuptial contract looks at the situation where the marriage is ended; this may be through death which eventually befalls us all and is a very real consequence of being alive. In the event of divorce, we need to consider that many marriages end in divorce for various reasons. The fact is that whether or by divorce or certainly by divorce; all marriages end. This is not being cynical, this is fact.
In the modern contest, being married in community of property is not just inconvenient; is downright dangerous. So often people who initially decided to get married in community of property; later decide to change to out of community of property. This is an extremely expensive step, relative to the relatively inexpensive step of registering a antenuptial contract; in addition post nuptial registration requires all you creditors to be give notice; which can be difficult when you have built up a business.
In December the month when traditionally there are the greatest number of weddings it is important to make sure that you enter your marriage with the best chances for success.
